On Monday year 9 pupils took part in an informative and thought-provoking session delivered by PC Marsden from Warwickshire Police, focusing on the law and the risks surrounding online activity such as sexting. Whilst not an immediate danger for Etone it is something we are committed to protect against.
The session formed part of the school’s ongoing commitment to safeguarding and helping young people make informed, responsible choices online.
PC Marsden explained clearly and sensitively that whilst young people may view this type of communication as “between friends” the law treats it very seriously. Students were told that creating, sending or possessing indecent images of anyone under 18 – even if the image is of themselves – is illegal under UK law.
He emphasised that once content is sent, control over it is lost. Images can be copied, forwarded or saved without consent, sometimes leading to embarrassment, bullying or even criminal investigations. The session highlighted that the law is designed to protect young people, but there can be serious consequences if images are shared maliciously or without consent.
PC Marsden spoke about the emotional and social consequences of this and some of the impacts it has had on others lives. He discussed how images can resurface months or even years later, affecting friendships, reputations and future opportunities.
Students were encouraged to think carefully before sharing anything online, asking themselves:
- Would I be comfortable if this was seen by my family or teachers?
- Could this be shared beyond the person I trust?
- Am I being pressured to send something I’m not comfortable with?
The discussion also covered peer pressure and coercion. Students were reassured that it is never acceptable for someone to pressure them into sending images, and that this behaviour can also be a criminal offence.
Practical advice was given on how to stay safe:
- Never share personal or intimate images.
- Use privacy settings wisely.
- Block and report anyone who makes them feel uncomfortable.
- Speak to a trusted adult immediately if something goes wrong.
PC Marsden reminded students that if they do find themselves in a difficult situation, they will be supported. Reporting concerns early can prevent situations from escalating.
We are grateful to PC Marsden and Warwickshire Police for supporting our school community in promoting safe and responsible online behaviour.

